Conflict
Conflict is inevitable in relationships. You are two different people, with different stories, sensitivities, and ways of protecting yourselves when things feel too hard or too vulnerable. Sometimes conflict is loud - sharp words, raised voices, slammed doors. Other times it’s quiet - a withdrawal, a cold silence, a lingering sense that something is broken but no one knows how to name it. Underneath it all, most conflict isn’t really about the content - it’s about disconnection. About feeling alone in the relationship you’re trying so hard to hold onto.
When you're caught in repeated arguments or long stretches of avoidance, it can start to erode your emotional safety. You might stop reaching for each other. The distance grows, and with it, resentment, sadness, and loneliness. Even love can start to feel heavy - like something you’re protecting more than enjoying. Conflict doesn’t mean your relationship is broken. But it often means there are unmet needs, unspoken hurts, or unhealed patterns calling out for attention.
Couples therapy creates a space where both of you can step out of the cycle and into a deeper conversation - not just about the surface issue, but about what’s really going on underneath. With our support, you’ll learn to recognise your patterns, communicate in ways that feel safer and clearer, and respond to each other with more compassion and presence. It’s not about fixing each other - it’s about learning how to turn toward one another, even in the mess, and build something stronger from the inside out.
If you’ve been feeling like you’re stuck in the same arguments, avoiding the tension, or drifting apart -couples therapy can help you find your way back to each other. Not by pretending the conflict doesn’t exist, but by understanding what it’s really trying to show you.